Left absolutely devastated and extremely disappointed
Unfortunately what should have been a magical appointment with my family was ruined by a number of things.
Firstly because I’m over 24 weeks I could bring up to 4 guests so I bought my Mum and Sister who I’m extremely close with along with my partner (of course)!
My Mum is unwell so to have her here for this scan was very special, well should have been.
We were greeted by the receptionist (later found out was the manager) and it was a really jolly bubbly upbeat welcome. I had asked if we could take a photo or record a brief clip of the baby in the room to which she said “No I’m afraid not but the photos and a video short movie video clip will all go onto the Avocado app, any photos of the images we could print there for £3.50 each”.
Absolutely fine, if they’re on the app I have no need to use my phone nor do any of my guests.
We walked into the room where the sonographer was very offhand and hurried me onto the bed to get ready. Baring in mind at the time it was 1 degrees, I did have a vest under my jumper dress to pull up before my tummy was fully exposed. She put on the gel and instantly had no chat with us, had the attitude of she really didn’t want to be there.
She scanned my tummy like it was going to disappear, so quick didn’t stop once to let us see anything, literally said, there’s a hand, there’s a leg, really stand off ish attitude when she said she couldn’t see the baby and the face because it’s holding its feet up by its head, like it was my fault.
Whilst the position of the baby is not her fault, she could have held it there for us to see! That is the whole point we are there, and that was it done.
4 minutes 9 seconds from start to finish.
During those 4 minutes the assistant called out my sister “do not film”!
This not only was incredibly distracting, distressing, disappointing and uncomfortable it was also not true. My sister help my mums hand during the scan.
We were all really upset by this as my sister was doing nothing of the sort.
Finished feeling very underwhelmed and extremely disappointed, but Came out looking forward to seeing the photos…only to find 9 photos which were blurry, poor quality and one of arm and leg which had written in yellow over the image “arm”.
I confirmed again with the receptionist the images would go onto the avocado app, to which she sent me a code to download.
I expressed my disappointment to my family but there was another couple waiting and they said don’t show disappointment and potentially ruin their experience.
We left awaited for the video and images.
Images came which again I showed them and they agreed they were awful. I appreciate the baby was in a tricky position but we could have had such a lovely photo of it if the sonographer just held still for 5 seconds.
No movie!
My mum agreed the following day I should complain, so I wrote an email to complain to only be told, I never told you you’d get a movie clip (despite 3 of my guests and myself being told so) and that she apologised for the experience and had informed the sonographer and assistant.
I’ll never get that moment back with my family, the false accusation that totally ruined the moment and for us to barely glimpse our baby was a huge disappointment especially after spending £60.
I’m absolutely devastated and extremely disappointed at the entire experience and their response to my email after.
Maidstone Kent Clinic
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