proxy: check the packet length of handshake response is greater or equal than 32 (#956)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #956

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #952

Problem Summary:

Previously, a malformed packet will cause panic (though in recoverable goroutine). It'll increase metrics.ServerErrCounter.WithLabelValues("panic") and cause some alerts.

What is changed and how it works:

I checked that the length of the handshake response packet (or ssl request packet) should be greater or equal than 32, so some of the malformed packet will be refused.

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Notable changes

• Has configuration change
• Has HTTP API interfaces change
• Has tiproxyctl change
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• 2025-10-27 03:51:12.761597698 +0000 UTC m=+1275778.838850248: ☑️ agreed by djshow832.

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