so like, depictions of androgyny generally fall between two categories ive been calling gender minimalism and gender maximalism:
gender minimalism tends to be the go-to for modern nonbinary characters in particular and leans towards soft-masc anime twink androgyny, where as many traditionally gendered traits as possible have been stripped from a characters design
gender maximalism on the other hand is more common in older media, usually to depict someone as a hedonist or otherwise outside the norm, and involves just putting as many overtly gendered characteristics on a character as possible
theres been a move away from gender maximalism since nb presence in media started being more positive, primarily because a lot of people associate those visuals with more derogatory depictions and dont want to fall back on bad stereotypes - which is fair. i also think the prevalence of gender minimalism promotes a very thin, young, white and afab-centric idea of androgyny that harms people through idealisation
theres a whole other conversation about ‘good representation’ vs ‘resonant representation’ and how the sanitisation of marginalised identities in media for the purposes of palatability to the masses just leads to hollow, beautiful vessels with no substance behind them but this post is too long already. basically i just think people need to be less afraid to get weird with it