about 4 months ago i made a post talking about a girl who had just left her bf. Thats all in the past now as im actually in a good relationship now. Too good... The girls 5 years older than me (18,23) but she really is great. Shes a model with a masters degree in global health and objectively shes extremely attractive. Shes a great person. The one problem has nothing to do with her honestly but more a me problem. Her dms are flooded with guys from all ranges. From bums to legit nba players, on top of that her being older means she also has quite a few bodies then me but honestly idc to much, but she has all these things going for her and i havent even graduated highschool yet. Regardless i know im decent looking, smart enough and personable enough. But I still dont feel exactly great about myself some times when im with her, especially when i know that if i fuck up theres some nba players waiting. Not to sound like i dont trust her but regardless it sits in the back of my head. The other day she had a full conversation with fucking James Harden. Fear the beard himself. Im not jealous or even insecure but im more confused as to why shes with me. I know this is a soy problem but a problem nonetheless. I come to vlr since its funny seeing people you can tell have never been with a girl give advice , but also since last time i got some decent advice. Am i being an insecure soy boy or is what im feeling have merit. lmk (live in vegas)
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She sees something in you which even with so many others approaching her doesn’t see in them
While your worries do kinda have merit
I think she sees smth in you and sounds awesome <3
Gl my bro
I mean yes your worries are like fair
You shouldnt underestimate how fun you are
And whilst Those people might be famous and cool in your eyes most people don’t like someone just because they are famous but because of their personality which you have a beautiful one BC otherwise you wouldnt be in a relationship
(Idk if i made it clear but you are awesome asf and prob even more in her eyes then in your own)
Don't worry about the nba players, they're not relationship guys, the fact that she's transparent about the dms, she's surely happy with you. Don't put yourself down
I'm lowk curious, how did you pull her bro?
ermmm lowk idk, we were on a cruise together and we hung out the whole time and we lived sort of near each other. We got along super well but even then some dude kept stalking her so she stayed in my room and thats kinda where it became more than friends.
You met her on a cruise? holy titanic
Also, if you asked her out, were you hesitant due to the age gap?
not really, in my head i was more thinking abt how this is the prettiest girl ive ever seen, so whats there to be nervous about.
W rizz mans, I'd have never approached a cute girl on a cruise thinking she prob here with her bf
about 4 months ago i made a post talking about a girl who had just left her bf. Thats all in the past now as im actually in a good relationship now. Too good... The girls 5 years older than me (18,23) but she really is great. Shes a model with a masters degree in global health and objectively shes extremely attractive. Shes a great person. The one problem has nothing to do with her honestly but more a me problem. Her dms are flooded with guys from all ranges. From bums to legit nba players, on top of that her being older means she also has quite a few bodies then me but honestly idc to much, but she has all these things going for her and i havent even graduated highschool yet. Regardless i know im decent looking, smart enough and personable enough. But I still dont feel exactly great about myself some times when im with her, especially when i know that if i fuck up theres some nba players waiting. Not to sound like i dont trust her but regardless it sits in the back of my head. The other day she had a full conversation with fucking James Harden. Fear the beard himself. Im not jealous or even insecure but im more confused as to why shes with me. I know this is a soy problem but a problem nonetheless. I come to vlr since its funny seeing people you can tell have never been with a girl give advice , but also since last time i got some decent advice. Am i being an insecure soy boy or is what im feeling have merit. lmk (live in vegas)
about 4 months ago i made a post talking about a girl who had just left her bf. Thats all in the past now as im actually in a good relationship now. Too good... The girls 5 years older than me (18,23) but she really is great. Shes a model with a masters degree in global health and objectively shes extremely attractive. Shes a great person. The one problem has nothing to do with her honestly but more a me problem. Her dms are flooded with guys from all ranges. From bums to legit nba players, on top of that her being older means she also has quite a few bodies then me but honestly idc to much, but she has all these things going for her and i havent even graduated highschool yet. Regardless i know im decent looking, smart enough and personable enough. But I still dont feel exactly great about myself some times when im with her, especially when i know that if i fuck up theres some nba players waiting. Not to sound like i dont trust her but regardless it sits in the back of my head. The other day she had a full conversation with fucking James Harden. Fear the beard himself. Im not jealous or even insecure but im more confused as to why shes with me. I know this is a soy problem but a problem nonetheless. I come to vlr since its funny seeing people you can tell have never been with a girl give advice , but also since last time i got some decent advice. Am i being an insecure soy boy or is what im feeling have merit. lmk (live in vegas)
honestly i've thought the same thing but even though i'm younger it's pretty obvious she's much more naive so i couldn't tell you.
You offer her something that clearly no other guy interacting with her can. You might just not value it as much yourself or you might be unaware. Being a bit confused in your case makes perfect sense but honestly, just enjoy yourself. If you are both willing to commit, then go for it!
All i can say is with that attitude she's not your's it's just ur turn buddy if you show her that you're insecure she's gonna fall out
Yeah I hope it’s fake bc it’s weird when someone with a masters is with a high schooler..
i dont gain anything from lying but i dont feel its that weird; what makes it weird
Pls tell harden to lock in gang they need that 35 - 20 run tell him to tell kawhi too nga got injured outta nowhere
Sorry to be negativity, but let me give you advice.
Just bc she said that she likes you, doesnt mean she is you gf, you guys are not even related yet.
You have somethings to work, meet her, talk to her, date her, know her.
Dont be emotional, dont call her gf or say you love her, you are a interest for now.
It's a copypasta, don't listen to what it says btw
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