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My Friends
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Fredrik Backman has such a unique writing style, with an ability to tap into the human existence with just the right phrase or two. I can always count on many laughs and quite a few tears whenever I read one of his books. When I read his books I know I’m going to be highlighting multiple sections. This was no exception.
This one does get off to a slower start than some of his other books. Louisa is an 18 year old who has just lost her best friend. Having just reached the age when she’s passed out of the foster care system, she literally has no one she can turn to or rely on. One night she meets a well known artist and in a fluke, he ends up bequeathing her his most famous painting, created twenty five years earlier. He created the painting when he was 15 and it covers his best friends from that time, one of whom has seen him through his final illness. Louisa and that friend, Ted, will embark on a cross country trip returning to the town where it all began.
The book is deeply philosophical and thought provoking. It covers creating art, grief, love, obviously friendship, but mostly the willingness to live life to the fullest. This work shows us the best and worst of humans. Backman’s writing is so realistic it made me want to hug some characters and throttle others.
I’m often not a fan of dual timelines, but here, the method worked perfectly. And that was down to caring just as much for Louisa as the earlier friends. Not to mention, getting to see how Ted had turned out. The ending was perfect and wasn’t at all what I was expecting.
I highly recommend this as a perfect choice for book clubs.
My thanks to Netgalley and Atria Books for an advance copy of this book.
This one does get off to a slower start than some of his other books. Louisa is an 18 year old who has just lost her best friend. Having just reached the age when she’s passed out of the foster care system, she literally has no one she can turn to or rely on. One night she meets a well known artist and in a fluke, he ends up bequeathing her his most famous painting, created twenty five years earlier. He created the painting when he was 15 and it covers his best friends from that time, one of whom has seen him through his final illness. Louisa and that friend, Ted, will embark on a cross country trip returning to the town where it all began.
The book is deeply philosophical and thought provoking. It covers creating art, grief, love, obviously friendship, but mostly the willingness to live life to the fullest. This work shows us the best and worst of humans. Backman’s writing is so realistic it made me want to hug some characters and throttle others.
I’m often not a fan of dual timelines, but here, the method worked perfectly. And that was down to caring just as much for Louisa as the earlier friends. Not to mention, getting to see how Ted had turned out. The ending was perfect and wasn’t at all what I was expecting.
I highly recommend this as a perfect choice for book clubs.
My thanks to Netgalley and Atria Books for an advance copy of this book.
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Mar 10, 2025 10:22AM
Great review Liz! I loved this one so much! I’m sure it will be a favorite for 2025!
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Debbie H wrote: "Great review Liz! I loved this one so much! I’m sure it will be a favorite for 2025!"Thanks Debbie. He is just such a special writer.
Jodi wrote: "Excellent review, Liz! This sounds like a Backman I might enjoy!"Thanks Jodi. I’ll be curious to see your thoughts.
Liz~Loved Reading your Review. This sounds terrific. I love Fredrik Backman’s books, so sure this will be the same. Glad it was a 5 Star ⭐️ Read.
Kristine wrote: "Liz~Loved Reading your Review. This sounds terrific. I love Fredrik Backman’s books, so sure this will be the same. Glad it was a 5 Star ⭐️ Read."Thanks so much Kristine. I hope you love it as much as I did.
I love reading your book comments because your words always resonate with me. Backman does have a way of fully realizing his characters and making them so believable, as you mentioned. I will add this book to my list.
I don't recollect him writing dual timelines so far, but his books are definitely slow. And you say this is even slower! I'll prepare myself accordingly but no way I'll miss a Backman. Glad you still loved it, Liz. Great review.
Lisa wrote: "I love reading your book comments because your words always resonate with me. Backman does have a way of fully realizing his characters and making them so believable, as you mentioned. I will add t..."Lisa, thanks so much for your kind words.
Rosh wrote: "I don't recollect him writing dual timelines so far, but his books are definitely slow. And you say this is even slower! I'll prepare myself accordingly but no way I'll miss a Backman. Glad you sti..."It is definitely not one to be missed! I thought Anxious People was much faster paced than this, so maybe that was overly coloring my view of his normal pacing.
Srivalli wrote: "Terrific review, Liz! His books are slow, so this could be even slower? Oops!"Thanks Srivalli. I guess I didn’t think of his prior books as slow.
MarilynW wrote: "I've read so many of his books, I need to read this one. Wonderful review, Liz!"Thanks Marilyn. It’s a great addition to his oeuvre.
Kat wrote: "Amazing review, Liz. I'm glad this was another stellar read for you from Backman!"Thanks Kat. He’s such a special writer.
Jenny wrote: "Super review! I am so excited to read this."Thanks Jenny. If you’re a fan, you won’t be disappointed.
Great review! You just reminded me that I need to read more Fredrik Backman . A Man Called Ove was one of the best books I read last year and definitely made me tear up several times but it was also freaking hilarious. I’m adding this one to my tbr! Thank you Liz!
Jessi wrote: "Great review! You just reminded me that I need to read more Fredrik Backman . A Man Called Ove was one of the best books I read last year and definitely made me tear up several times but it was als..."Thanks Jessi. Everything he writes is so good! I also adored Anxious People if you haven’t read it.
Angela M wrote: "Excellent review, Liz. I wasn’t expecting the ending either , but also loved it ."Thanks Angela. I’m glad to see you loved this as well.
Great review, Liz. I've never read Backman before, but I have read a lot of great reviews of his work. I like dual timelines if they're done right. A dual time line can be a great way for the author to "show" more than "tell". JMHO
Donne wrote: "Great review, Liz. I've never read Backman before, but I have read a lot of great reviews of his work. I like dual timelines if they're done right. A dual time line can be a great way for the autho..."Thanks Donne. Oh, his books are all so good. Hard to go wrong reading any of them.
I agree about the dual timelines - when done right. It’s just most “modern” sides of the dual timeline end up being a means to convey info.
Glenda wrote: "Wonderful review Liz. I’m at 59% and am leaning heavily towards 5*."Thanks Glenda. I hope it stays a five for you. I loved the ending.
I agree, this one would be great for book groups. I am glad you loved this one, too. Lovely review Liz. 🥰















