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My Friends by Fredrik Backman
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it was amazing
bookshelves: netgalley, best-of-2025

Fredrik Backman has such a unique writing style, with an ability to tap into the human existence with just the right phrase or two. I can always count on many laughs and quite a few tears whenever I read one of his books. When I read his books I know I’m going to be highlighting multiple sections. This was no exception.
This one does get off to a slower start than some of his other books. Louisa is an 18 year old who has just lost her best friend. Having just reached the age when she’s passed out of the foster care system, she literally has no one she can turn to or rely on. One night she meets a well known artist and in a fluke, he ends up bequeathing her his most famous painting, created twenty five years earlier. He created the painting when he was 15 and it covers his best friends from that time, one of whom has seen him through his final illness. Louisa and that friend, Ted, will embark on a cross country trip returning to the town where it all began.
The book is deeply philosophical and thought provoking. It covers creating art, grief, love, obviously friendship, but mostly the willingness to live life to the fullest. This work shows us the best and worst of humans. Backman’s writing is so realistic it made me want to hug some characters and throttle others.
I’m often not a fan of dual timelines, but here, the method worked perfectly. And that was down to caring just as much for Louisa as the earlier friends. Not to mention, getting to see how Ted had turned out. The ending was perfect and wasn’t at all what I was expecting.
I highly recommend this as a perfect choice for book clubs.
My thanks to Netgalley and Atria Books for an advance copy of this book.
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Reading Progress

December 16, 2024 – Shelved
December 16, 2024 – Shelved as: to-read
December 23, 2024 – Shelved as: netgalley
March 5, 2025 – Started Reading
March 10, 2025 – Shelved as: best-of-2025
March 10, 2025 – Finished Reading

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Debbie H Great review Liz! I loved this one so much! I’m sure it will be a favorite for 2025!


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Jodi Excellent review, Liz! This sounds like a Backman I might enjoy!


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Emma.catherine Great review Liz! Glad you enjoyed it so much


message 4: by Liz (new) - rated it 5 stars

Liz Debbie H wrote: "Great review Liz! I loved this one so much! I’m sure it will be a favorite for 2025!"

Thanks Debbie. He is just such a special writer.


message 5: by Liz (new) - rated it 5 stars

Liz Jodi wrote: "Excellent review, Liz! This sounds like a Backman I might enjoy!"

Thanks Jodi. I’ll be curious to see your thoughts.


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Liz Emma.catherine wrote: "Great review Liz! Glad you enjoyed it so much"

Thanks Emma.


Kristine Liz~Loved Reading your Review. This sounds terrific. I love Fredrik Backman’s books, so sure this will be the same. Glad it was a 5 Star ⭐️ Read.


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Liz Kristine wrote: "Liz~Loved Reading your Review. This sounds terrific. I love Fredrik Backman’s books, so sure this will be the same. Glad it was a 5 Star ⭐️ Read."

Thanks so much Kristine. I hope you love it as much as I did.


Lisa Martin I love reading your book comments because your words always resonate with me. Backman does have a way of fully realizing his characters and making them so believable, as you mentioned. I will add this book to my list.


message 10: by Rosh (new) - rated it 3 stars

Rosh I don't recollect him writing dual timelines so far, but his books are definitely slow. And you say this is even slower! I'll prepare myself accordingly but no way I'll miss a Backman. Glad you still loved it, Liz. Great review.


message 11: by Liz (new) - rated it 5 stars

Liz Lisa wrote: "I love reading your book comments because your words always resonate with me. Backman does have a way of fully realizing his characters and making them so believable, as you mentioned. I will add t..."

Lisa, thanks so much for your kind words.


message 12: by Liz (new) - rated it 5 stars

Liz Rosh wrote: "I don't recollect him writing dual timelines so far, but his books are definitely slow. And you say this is even slower! I'll prepare myself accordingly but no way I'll miss a Backman. Glad you sti..."

It is definitely not one to be missed! I thought Anxious People was much faster paced than this, so maybe that was overly coloring my view of his normal pacing.


Canadian Jen Happy to see Backman delivers another solid one. Great review, Liz!


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Srivalli (Semi-Hiatus) Terrific review, Liz! His books are slow, so this could be even slower? Oops!


message 15: by Liz (new) - rated it 5 stars

Liz Srivalli wrote: "Terrific review, Liz! His books are slow, so this could be even slower? Oops!"

Thanks Srivalli. I guess I didn’t think of his prior books as slow.


message 16: by MarilynW (last edited Mar 11, 2025 08:59AM) (new) - rated it 4 stars

MarilynW I've read so many of his books, I need to read this one. Wonderful review, Liz!


message 17: by Liz (new) - rated it 5 stars

Liz MarilynW wrote: "I've read so many of his books, I need to read this one. Wonderful review, Liz!"

Thanks Marilyn. It’s a great addition to his oeuvre.


message 18: by Kat (new) - rated it 5 stars

Kat Amazing review, Liz. I'm glad this was another stellar read for you from Backman!


Jenny K (On partial break) Super review! I am so excited to read this.


message 20: by Liz (new) - rated it 5 stars

Liz Kat wrote: "Amazing review, Liz. I'm glad this was another stellar read for you from Backman!"

Thanks Kat. He’s such a special writer.


message 21: by Liz (new) - rated it 5 stars

Liz Jenny wrote: "Super review! I am so excited to read this."

Thanks Jenny. If you’re a fan, you won’t be disappointed.


message 22: by Mary Beth (new)

Mary Beth Great review! So glad you found a five star. 🩷


message 23: by Liz (new) - rated it 5 stars

Liz Mary Beth wrote: "Great review! So glad you found a five star. 🩷"

Thanks Mary Beth.


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Jessi Great review! You just reminded me that I need to read more Fredrik Backman . A Man Called Ove was one of the best books I read last year and definitely made me tear up several times but it was also freaking hilarious. I’m adding this one to my tbr! Thank you Liz!


message 25: by Liz (last edited Mar 16, 2025 02:29PM) (new) - rated it 5 stars

Liz Jessi wrote: "Great review! You just reminded me that I need to read more Fredrik Backman . A Man Called Ove was one of the best books I read last year and definitely made me tear up several times but it was als..."

Thanks Jessi. Everything he writes is so good! I also adored Anxious People if you haven’t read it.


Debra Wonderful review, Liz!


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Liz Debra wrote: "Wonderful review, Liz!"

Thanks Debra. Good to see you were also a big fan.


Angela M Excellent review, Liz. I wasn’t expecting the ending either , but also loved it .


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Liz Angela M wrote: "Excellent review, Liz. I wasn’t expecting the ending either , but also loved it ."

Thanks Angela. I’m glad to see you loved this as well.


DeAnn Wonderful review Liz!


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Liz DeAnn wrote: "Wonderful review Liz!"

Thanks DeAnn.


message 32: by Donne (new)

Donne Great review, Liz. I've never read Backman before, but I have read a lot of great reviews of his work. I like dual timelines if they're done right. A dual time line can be a great way for the author to "show" more than "tell". JMHO


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Liz Donne wrote: "Great review, Liz. I've never read Backman before, but I have read a lot of great reviews of his work. I like dual timelines if they're done right. A dual time line can be a great way for the autho..."

Thanks Donne. Oh, his books are all so good. Hard to go wrong reading any of them.
I agree about the dual timelines - when done right. It’s just most “modern” sides of the dual timeline end up being a means to convey info.


NILTON TEIXEIRA Brilliant review!


message 35: by Liz (new) - rated it 5 stars

Liz NILTON wrote: "Brilliant review!"

Thanks Nilton!


message 36: by Jill (new) - rated it 5 stars

Jill Well said, Liz. I’m listening to audiobook at present and it’s so good.


Glenda Wonderful review Liz. I’m at 59% and am leaning heavily towards 5*.


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Liz Glenda wrote: "Wonderful review Liz. I’m at 59% and am leaning heavily towards 5*."

Thanks Glenda. I hope it stays a five for you. I loved the ending.


Karen I agree, this one would be great for book groups. I am glad you loved this one, too. Lovely review Liz. 🥰


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Liz Karen wrote: "I agree, this one would be great for book groups. I am glad you loved this one, too. Lovely review Liz. 🥰"

Thanks Karen. Glad to see you loved it as well.


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