Posted by andthenweloved
Here's your end of year reminder: you don't have to pass. Your end goal with transitioning doesn't have to be to look like everyone else. You're allowed to be and look different.
Posted by andthenweloved
To all the new trans friends we made in 2025! 🥂🎇
And to all the new trans friends we will make in 2026! 🥂🎆
Posted by andthenweloved
A cis gay guy dating a trans man does not mean he is secretly bisexual.
A cis lesbian dating a trans woman does not mean she is secretly bisexual.
Trans people don't make you bisexual.
You don't have to be bisexual to date trans people.
Posted by andthenweloved
Being able to use the post-Christmas sales to buy yourself clothes that bring you gender euphoria is the best gift 🏳️⚧️
Posted by andthenweloved
Hey merry christmas all fellow trans peeps!! 🎄🎅
Reblogged autistic-velociraptor
I know transphobia is scary and humiliating and so complex but it is so dangerous to tell other trans people that the only ones who will ever love and understand you are other trans people of your gender. its the quickest way to isolate yourself and radicalize yourself against everybody and just feel bitter and miserable all the fucking time
Posted by andthenweloved
Hi, I think I'm trans. I've always behaved very masculinely, I like short hair, and I feel uncomfortable being a girl. What do I do? Am I trans, or is it just me going crazy?
That is ultimately up to you to decide, I can't do that for you. You're not "crazy" though. You might be trans, you might be a masculine "not-like-other-girls" girl. Both are fine. You have to figure out for yourself what you feel more comfortable with, which label feel more like "you". It's a journey of self discovery :)
I do have some posts about questioning here, but there are many more resources out there if you do some searching:
Posted by andthenweloved
Anonymous asked:
hey so Ive been wanting to get top surgery for a long time now but I also dont want nipples.
I know thats usually called Mastectomy but do you think doctors can just remove the nipple anyway?
Idk if this has already talked about before somewhere but I tried looking and I couldnt find anything really about it
For the double incision bilateral mastectomy, which is probably the most common type of top surgery, they have to remove and replace the nipple. You can just ask them to not put it back. That's what I did and it turned out fine:
My scars are a bit higher up than "normal" for a double incision; they usually try to put them along the underside of the pec muscle so they don't stand out so much. That's not related to the no-nipple thing though, I just had a weird surgeon.
But if you have very small breasts they might very well recommend a keyhole top surgery, which doesn't normaly include the removal of the nipple. So in that case your scars will probably end up where mine did if you ask for no nipple, since your skin might not be enough to stretch to under the pec muscle.
Posted by andthenweloved
Fact #1070: Statistically speaking, you are more likely to regret not doing something than you are to regret doing something. So wear that outfit, try that new name, experiment with makeup, express yourself however you want to. No matter if it "matches" you gender or not.
Reblogged sergle
why is this framed all cutesy??
ohhhhhhhhh