… “nonverbal = permanent / long term ONLY” not just abt some haha another tiny detail to police that only chronically online social media ppl care abt when there Real Problems Going On In World How Dare You bc like
so many times just want peace not want spend already limited words explain that concept… of not have energy or… or theory of mind forget ppl not know that… or again just like. don’t wanna, not obligated to!!! n just say “am nonverbal” casually or talk abt nonverbal ppl nonverbality nonverbal i/dd ppl etc
n then at *best* they at first message respond w sth like “oh me too when i go nonverbal” or sth that let me know oh they not understand
but usually what happen be like
talk talk talk go for while maybe even talk good and then THEN realize oh we not talk abt same thing at ALL. that when they say relate they don’t relate. when feel oh maybe am not alone someone else experience same, am actually so very alone. when am saying real n true n research backed things abt nonverbal ppl, they misinterpret to mean different thing n now they believe in wrong information n gonna go on spread misinformation.
n vast majority cases prob be ppl passive scrolling by, or convo end without ever realizing, that they interpret what am say abt nonverbal as. what actually be verbal shutdown. n me person who say thing not even realize own message misinterpreted.
bc actual nonverbal ppl not exist to lot people majority people even. like it not just that we not first thing they think of (when it be what it supposed to mean!!) (altho it do be true), not that we second thought, not “oh right and those ppl exist,” it also that we not thought of at. all.
[pt: we not thought of at. all.]
“nonverbal” be so misused n popularized that actual nonverbal ppl literally erased from that term




