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Failing and Flying

by Jack Gilbert

Everyone forgets that Icarus also flew.
It’s the same when love comes to an end,
or the marriage fails and people say
they knew it was a mistake, that everybody
said it would never work. That she was
old enough to know better. But anything
worth doing is worth doing badly.
Like being there by that summer ocean
on the other side of the island while
love was fading out of her, the stars
burning so extravagantly those nights
that anyone could tell you they would never last.
Every morning she was asleep in my bed
like a visitation, the gentleness in her
like antelope standing in the dawn mist.
Each afternoon I watched her coming back
through the hot stony field after swimming,
the sea light behind her and the huge sky
on the other side of that. Listened to her
while we ate lunch. How can they say
the marriage failed? Like the people who
came back from Provence (when it was Provence)
and said it was pretty but the food was greasy.
I believe that Icarus was not failing as he fell,
but just coming to the end of his triumph.

Some coaching journal New Year’s prompts:

🗓️What are you leaving behind in 2025, and what’s coming with you into 2026?

⏰If you could go back to January 1, 2025, what would you tell yourself about how you spent your time and energy this past year?

🧲Who would you have spent more time connecting with? Why? What can you do to make sure you do this in 2026?

🌅What was your favorite day of 2025? What did it look like, sound like, smell like, feel like? How do you take some of the energy of that great day into 2026?

✅What’s the most important lesson you learned in 2026? Why?

🤩Think about your core values, did they change at all in 2025? What came to the forefront, and what took a bit of a backseat? Are you happy with this, or do you want to make some changes in 2026?

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