do you ever have a conversation and think “I am not heterosexual enough for this”

i legit started to question my aromanticism/asexuality but then i remembered aesthetic attraction exists

slowly turning my friends aroace like they are slowly turning me non gender conforming

oof, this is my first time drawing water, like, ever! I think it turned out alright. These are the sun and moon twins, Skoll and Hati, in the universe I’m writing!

So I haven't been posting much, and one of the reasons is I currently can't really walk.

About a week ago I was doing my normal hikes/walks/runs when my left leg went. Pulsing pain for the past week, I can't walk on it (barely). Only able to do the bare minimum before needing to lay back down with a ice pack

Currently heading to physio next week, but if it continues I may not be able to work this week which is bad for my already rapidly lowering savings

Just a bit to stressed to post sorry

Not sexual, not romantic, not aesthetic, not physical, not intellectual, but a sixth, secret attraction

The thing I’ve noticed about the Ultimate MCYTblr Sexyman propaganda is that we do not choose them because they hot (or at least not entirely) but because they have Personality. And as an aroacespec fan, I think that’s great

*i'm AroAce

me in 2011-2015, browsing tumblr: "why did this even get reblogged, it's just some random gifs of this person."

me, finally, around 2016: learns people just think people are hot sometimes and reblog gifs for that reason.

me, from 2017-2025: "why did this - oh yeah, I remember."

me, finally, in 2026: "hm, looks like @/myfunblog thinks Tony Danza was hot in the 1980s sitcom Who's the Boss. interesting."

THATS WHY PEOPLE DO IT???

I thought we were all collecting people we would like to put in a jar and shake

I have made many errors that I need to correct my mutuals on I DO NOT FIND ANY MEN/WOMEN/OTHER I REBLOG HOT I JUST WANT THEM BUT NOT IN THAT WAY, IN THE WAY OF A BUTTERFLY COLLECTOR MAYBEHAPS

All those Hannibal gifs…

queer platonic partners but the only thing that changes is we hold hands

how to know if you’re aroace or a severely

hormone-deficient lesbian no borax no glue

i fear every character i write turns out at least a little bit aroace. it’s inescapable

I wish people cared more about platonic relationships.

Aroace queen

This is LITERALLY what happened to me XD

Social anxiety started in middle school, I started to be aware of my asexuality just after highschool (I was eighteen ish)

And for aromantism well somewhere in 2025 (I was gonna say this year but no, we're in 2026 now XD)

I need people to know that when I, a sex repulsed asexual, say something like "I'd let him fuck me" or something like that

I do NOT mean literally

I am NOT talking about real people

these are fictional folks

and I'd let them fuck me in fiction

thanks for your attention