How to Create a Human Magical Familiar (Quick version)
How to Create a Human Magical Familiar:
The very simplified version.
First: What is a Familiar? Traditionally in magick a Familiar is a spirit that serves a magical practitioner Master. In more recent years it has been used to simply mean the pet of a magical practitioner.
And, yes, there is a way to make a human into your familiar.
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Note: Consent, beforehand, is required of the would-be Human Magical Familiar! Remember to gain consent before any of this!
It is preferred that the would-be Familiar have some occult knowledge, experience, and talent. You want wisdom and creativity in the Familiar. Another magical practitioner is preferred in becoming a Human Magical Familiar.
Step 1. Contract: An agreement or contract, verbal or written, or both, must be established where the person consents to becoming the Familiar of a magical practitioner. If the contract is written or printed on paper, it is best that The would-be-Familiar signs it with a little bit of their own blood. A drop will do.
As this is completely done with consent, it does not violate the Wiccan Rede. This spell does not harm. It transforms.
Step 2. Binding Circle: The would be Familiar must stand, sit, kneel, or otherwise be placed inside a circle of salt or white chalk drawn on the floor or ground.
An office chair on wheels is an ideal option if you wish to tie down or otherwise restrain your would-be Familiar for the duration of the ceremony. It also reduces chances of resistance within The Binding Circle or chance of The Familiar trying to leave the binding circle during The Ceremony.
Alternatively, the would-be Familiar may also be forced to kneel for the ceremony (with or without restraints). That is an option.
Step 3. Vows: You will have to personalize the oath but the Familiar must pledge themself to their master (or Master and Coven or even just to a coven). They will vow to surrender all of their power and magical potential to the service of their Master or Masters (there can be more than one or an entire coven). The would-be Familiar will surrender themself to their Master(s) forever.
The would-be Familiar acknowledges that from now on they are no longer what they once were (witch, sorcerer, etc.). That now, in the realms of magick, they are magical property, enslaved within The Laws of Magick, a Familiar, and that they give themself to this status willingly.
This pledge of obedience and to be a Familiar can be made specifically by the Familiar or a version directed toward the Familiar by the Master. I.e. "Do you swear to surrender all of yourself to me forever? Do you accept that within the magical community you will now and forever be mine? " And the Familiar provides confirmation. If this is done by an entire coven laying claim to The Familiar, or to certain members of the coven, they may each ask for a similar pledge. "Do you bequeath to us your magical potential in all spell casting purposes? Do you promise to love and obey us? Do you acknowledge that you belong to us, as our Familiar and do you acknowledge us forever, as your Masters?"
The Familiar does not have to be restrained for this part but it is optional. If the restraint chosen is one that prevents speech (i.e. a gag or tape or some other mouth restraint) than confirmation can be given via nodding while the would-be Master asks the vows. The reason a gag or mouth restraint should be considered is the magick taking effect might cause the Familiar to abruptly cry out or scream during the metaphysical transformation. And inability to talk (though temporary) can be symbolic of willing subjugation and submission so there is symbolic meaning there.
Note: If you use tape, first make sure the would-be Familiar consents to it. Tape may not be safe. Make sure they can breathe comfortably. If they cannot breathe comfortably do NOT use the tape!
The Familiar should probably be restrained in some way as so they cannot leave the circle until the ritual is done. Tied or chained (in a wheeled office chair is an option that allows easy placement of The Familiar) while preventing breaching the circle.
Iron shackles and manacles are a practical choice and also symbolic of submission to the transformation. Such restraints are also re-usable. It is the choice of the master to restrain, or even gag the Familiar whenever they feel it is necessary, such as during ritual magicks where The Master may channel magical energy from The Familiar, or during sabbats. But if The Familiar does not consent to this from the start of abruptly chooses that this is not acceptable, The Master must heed them.
Step 4. Collaring or marking: While still within a circle big enough for The Familiar to stand in (usually drawn with white salt or white chalk) a collar is gently placed around the throat of the Familiar by the Master, possibly (But not necessarily) bearing a tag that says "Familiar" or "Familiar of (name here) and (Coven name here) or Familiar and the sigil of The Master. A tag is not necessary.
The collar is symbolic. It can also be a pendant, or bracelet, or something bearing their Master’s sigil, or infused with their Master’s power. Something to mark The Familiar as claimed. A pendant of any kind is most discrete.
A literal collar has the most symbolism and significance for the ritual.
If a literal collar is used, the collar is locked in place, usually with a tiny key lock / small pad lock. The Master keeps one key and if the Familiar is shared by the coven, another trusted member of the coven keeps another key in case of emergencies. The Familiar may not take this collar off and should never be told where the key is, if such a collar is used.
The collar (or pendant, bracelet, etc.) is never supposed to come off except to possibly replace it with another collar. Without the collar, or other symbolic marking, The Familiar becomes vulnerable to supernatural entities that might see them as an unclaimed Familiar and possible magical prey. The familiar must always wear something identifying them as a *claimed* Familiar and a collar is best as they ARE a pet. The collar (or other jewelry or marking) is infused with the aura of their Master and shows other magical entities that The Familiar has a Master and is claimed.
If the Familiar is placed in a locked collar (recommended) and absolutely needs to remove the collar for medical reasons or going through security at an airport, The Master may remove the collar for them before-hand but a sigil of The Master must be drawn somewhere on The Familiar’s body and that sigil must stay there until the collar can be placed back on. This is not just for kink. A Familiar without a marking of ownership becomes fair game to supernatural predators, and the sigil is actually a safety measure.
The act of Collaring can be equated to a marriage ceremony. The Familiar is surrendering themself, their power and their will and The Master is pledging love, comfort, support, and protection. It is a sincere act of trust and love for The Familiar and it is a sense of honor to be so trusted, and a willing and loving responsibility for The Master. It should be treated as seriously as a marriage (if not more so since it is magically binding and not mere BDSM!).
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Step 5. The True Naming: During the collaring a new magical binding is placed on the Familiar by The Master. This is done by giving The Familiar a new True Name during the collaring. While locking the collar (or placing on the jewelry or marking) The Master says “(The Familiar’s True name.) I now name you (True name said again). This is now your True Name! I bind you and claim you (True Name said a third time here) by the Laws of Magick. I am your Master and you are now my Familiar! So mote it be!”
A True Name is usually not your legal name. It is the name you most heavily associate with yourself and believe you will recognize as your identity in any discorporate and posthumous form. It is precious and magical and it can tug at your very soul.
This can be discussed and or chosen between Master and Familiar before the collaring ceremony. And the name may be whispered into The Familiar’s ear if The Master does not want anyone else to know it.
All supernatural entities and magical users respect the power of a True Name. The one who knows your true name can hold dominion over you magically, and this is even more true when giving a new True Name. It is powerful and transformative. It is a type of binding spell, sealing The Familiar’s role as property of Their Master and as a Familiar forever.
Note: An already established older True Name of The Familiar or the original True name of The Familiar is optional if The Familiar does not want their True Name changed, but their Master is laying claim to the name by saying it and by extension claiming The Familiar utterly, and must say whatever The Familiar’s True Name is or will be thrice (three times) as the collar or pendant, bracelet, or otherwise marking, is placed on them.
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Step 6: The Blood Binding:
This one may be substituted as the only step of the Familiarizing ritual if you are in a situation where you must rush but it is advised to go back and do the rest of the ritual later if possible.
This is the final step of the ritual of creating A Human Magical Familiar. If The Familiar is restrained against speech the restraint must be removed at this point in the ritual.
For a very quick version of Familiarizing AKA Making a Familiar, you can bypass all else that came before and do this step but I do not recommend doing that. Doing only this step should only be in an emergency situation and if possible, later do the complete ceremony.
The Master must feed The Familiar (preferably from a chalice) a mixture of Moon Water (water that had been bathed the waxing, nearly full, or full moon light) mixed with three drops of The Master’s blood. This is an easy spell to assure eternal submissiveness, and loyalty from an animal familiar or magical slave (Human Magical Familiar). If The Familiar is squeamish about drinking blood or there is concern about HIV or other transmittable illness, the three drops of blood can be substituted with a sprinkling of salt with the words “I bind you, O creature of Earth and claim you. You shall obey me forever. So mote it be.”
The moon water with salt version is best if an entire coven is claiming The Familiar. “We bind you, O creature of Earth and claim you. You shall obey us forever. So mote it be.”
You, as The Master, may have to force feed the moon water and blood mixture or moon water and salt mixture to The Familiar if they chose to be "forcibly" transformed into a Familiar (meaning they consented to being made into a Familiar but admitted in advance they might panic, resist, or struggle later or want to make a show of resisting to increase the sense of being ensnared by the magical forces observing).
Needless to say, do not force or trick anyone to drink blood against their will. If The Familiar cannot or will not consent to blood, than the salt and incantation in the water is fine.
Whether using The Master’s blood or salt, if the making of The Familiar is intended as an act of contrition, punishment, or being “Forced,” than black moon water is recommended. This is also an option for a more romantic Familiar creation. Black Moon Water is moon water bathed in the “Light” (read: Darkness) of a new moon night that happens to be the second New Moon of a month. It is not necessary but it does add a little more binding power to the spell. It also makes the status of Familiar virtually impossible to leave- it is more fulsome of a binding.
On the other hand, Moon water made with Blue Moon Light (a second full moon in a month) grants luck and success, but not necessarily more power, behind the spell. Either is an option. More conventional moon water is fine.
Note: When doing the three drops of your Master’s blood spell for an animal familiar, just hide the three drops of blood in their food. Don’t bother with the water. And do NOT restrain an animal familiar at all. When claiming an animal familiar, just put three drops of The Master’s blood in their food. That is ALL you have to do! A human magical familiar is much more complicated.
After this if the mouth was restrained The Master should probably place the mouth restraint back on The Familiar because within the next few moments is a metaphysical transformation.
The Master should now gently stroke the Familiar’s cheek and then stroke or lightly brush the hair of The Familiar. If the familiar is bald, gently stroke the scalp. Then whisper something comforting in The Familiar’s ear. Even a simple “Well done, (followed by their true name).”
This is a rarity but if the Familiar identifies as (or is suspected of being) a vampire (psychic or blood-drinking), then The Master MUST complete the ritual by driving an iron nail through The Familiar’s shadow.
Driving an iron nail through The Familiar’s shadow is an old and slightly obscure superstition on how to enslave a vampire. In such a situation this is absolutely necessary. Even if you only suspect vampire tendencies it is better to be safe than sorry.
If The Familiar truly is a vampire do not be startled to know that this moment may be when The Familiar truly starts to take the situation seriously and might start to show some possible apprehension or instinctive struggle or resistance. If The Familiar just becomes anxious or agitated, you may calm them and continue the ceremony.
If the Familiar identifies as a werewolf or is suspected of being a werewolf than adding a silver five-pointed pentacle or star (or drawing one) somewhere on the collar is advised, or use a pentacle pendant as the mark.
Now The Master breaks the circle that The Familiar is standing within and leads them out toward any and all witnesses and presents them. “I present to you, my Familiar (Familiar’s chosen name or nickname is then said.)!” The newly recognized True Name is optional here but not necessary.
It is done. The Familiar has been ritualistically created.
A full practitioner has been ritualistically destroyed and a Magical Familiar has been born and created from them. The Familiar is treated like a newly made entity created out of the magical practitioner.
The restraints (if any, again, it is recommended) come off only when The Master feels like it and The Familiar may be restrained when The Master feels like it or deems it necessary. Keeping the Familiar at least somewhat restrained after the ritual until a little after the sun has risen is recommended, if the ritual was done at night (also recommended but not necessary).
Becoming a Familiar is meant to be forever! It is not supposed to be temporary. It is a very serious and sincere surrender and commitment to become magical property to a Master. That is why I emphasize it has to be willing and it is as serious and sincere as a marriage ceremony (if not more so). As The Master, creating and choosing to keep such a being as a Familiar needs to also be taken seriously by The Master. You, as The Master, created this entity in metaphysically destroying a magical practitioner and transforming them into your Familiar. You must forever be accountable for your magical creation. You own them. They are your property. So take care of them!
In situations where The Master may have rendered the Familiar unable to physically speak, a gesture or some other communication must be devised so that The Familiar can communicate a “Stop.” Or “I do not wish to proceed with this.” If such a gesture is made, The Master must heed it. Some masters even prefer The Familiar be forbidden from speaking except when The Familiar is providing magical assistance, advice, or spell formulation. The notion for some is that a Familiar should be seen and not heard. This cannot be enforced publicly, mind you. The “normies” and Cowan and their culture should be respected. Laws of Magick does not mean Law of Man. If a Master prefers their Familiar be prevented from talking most of the time, this should be discussed beforehand between them and I, personally, suggest substantial compensation- expensive gifts to The Familiar- if you (as the master) want your Familiar to live this way, in near total silence or even restrained against speaking the majority of the time.
Some masters (or coven) might even want The Familiar to be kept in some sort of restraints or shackle tethered to a wall within the house when The Familiar is not out in public (where no restraint should be used!). In that case- again- I suggest offering considerable compensation to The Familiar and discuss this prospect (being restrained a great deal of the time) beforehand.
Despite what some might think, a relationship between Familiar and Master can and should be a healthy one of mutual respect and love. The relationship can be romantic or even (believe it or not) strictly platonic.
The Master of The Familiar could be a lover, platonic, Queer Platonic, ace-romantic, or a good friend.
Also contrary to what one might think, being a Familiar is not a “lesser’ or “inferior” status just because The Familiar is claimed / owned. It is not a status to be ashamed of but one that someone could and should take pride in. Only someone of great intelligence and Creativity is worthy of being a Familiar. And Familiars have a considerable reserve of magical energy that a Master can use in spell casting, advanced spell methodology composing, psychic potential, and heightened senses. The perks might make being a Familiar possibly more appealing than simply being a magical practitioner.
A Familiar is a magical entity and should be respected as such. Familiars should be valued and appreciated. Unlike some depictions in pop culture, Familiars are extremely valuable and prized. The status of being considered magical property does not diminish this value and appreciation. A Familiar is something precious and should be treasured.
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When the magick takes effect during or right after the ceremony The Familiar will feel an ASMR type of tingle in the scalp and down the spine. This is the lightest sigh that the spell is working.
There is a very real metaphysical transformation.
On a psychic level The Familiar is now a magical entity.
A Familiar can be gifted or willed to a new master. Their very aura will have changed.
There are many perks to becoming a Familiar but there are some drawbacks as well.
The Familiar loses the right to cast magick on their own. They are forbidden from casting magick without their master and any attempts to cast magick alone may backfire or just not work. However, The Familiar’s own magical potential and ability to channel magick is enhanced in that it can be used so that The Master and others chosen by the Master may draw magical energy from The Familiar to enhance their spells. Spells cast with the aid of a Familiar’s potential almost always work.
The Familiar will feel at least faintly, urges to obey their Master, though this can be resisted. They still have free will despite being perceived as magically claimed / owned.
A sense of loyalty and possibly dependance to their Master is perfectly normal.
This does NOT mean The Familiar is without free will. A Familiar’s Free Will remains intact despite instincts and inclination. And Masters, if a Familiar refuses a command because of moral or personal objection, or because they no longer wish to be considered a Familiar, (despite the metaphysical transformation) you must heed them. The Familiar / Master relationship is one of mutual respect despite The Familiar being considered claimed property.
Do not be alarmed if The Familiar’s sleep patterns are very different from the person they once were. Familiars are usually, instinctively, nocturnal.
The Familiar also gains a new and potent creative ability to concoct and formulate new and potent spells. Any type of spell The Master may require, if asked of from The Familiar, the Familiar may instinctively come up with a version of a suitable spell that will almost definitely work.
The Familiar may also develop some heightened senses and at least a slightly extend longevity as a reward for choosing to become a Familiar.
The Familiar may also develop some animal-like instincts and behaviors or quirks (though personality and intellect will remain in tact or even be enhanced). Any animal-like trait will be reminiscent of animals The Familiar already felt a kinship with or resembled before in nature. These traits may resemble those of a dog, wolf, bat, cat, owl, or fox, crow, raven, or other animals and birds.
The emotional and intellectual range of The Familiar will also increase even if only slightly. This is another gift from The Universe for The Familiar having chosen to bind their fate to being a Familiar.
This also makes The Familiar more useful as an advisor and helper for their Master.
The Familiar is also under protection in the claiming of a Master. That means no other magical or supernatural entity may lay claim to them except if The Master willingly (and with the willingness of The Familiar) passes ownership to another.
There is a certain amount of clout in being able to say you claimed another magical practitioner as your familiar. It is not that common.
There is a sense of love and of pride in knowing someone wanted you as their Familiar badly enough to go through with the ritualistic spell and responsibility for The Familiar.
There is a considerable shortage of Human Magical Familiars. (Not just pets). So there is considerable compensation from The Universe for choosing to become one. If you become a Familiar you will gain enhanced psychic potential in such things as psychometry, clairvoyance, possible mild empathic potential, and increased spirit sensitivity.
The Familiar now counts as a magical entity while still physically remaining human.
Take this warning: Once a Familiar, always a Familiar!
The metaphysical transformation remains even if The Familiar later no longer wishes to be considered a familiar. Also, usually if that should happen, sooner or later they will likely want to return to being considered a Familiar, even if it is to a new master.
All though the metaphysical transformation is irreversible, if a Familiar wishes to no longer be considered a Familiar, this must be respected. Though, again, I strongly believe that sooner or later that former Familiar will feel a compulsion to be considered a Familiar again even if it is to a new Master. Once a Familiar, always a Familiar.
The Familiar has the right to choose to no longer be considered a Familiar but they become vulnerable to being claimed by magical or supernatural forces that will sense them as an unclaimed Familiar.
The Familiar also has the right to refuse any command from their Master(s) that goes against their personal sense of right and wrong.
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There are many reasons one might choose to make and claim a Human Magical Familiar or why someone might choose to become a Familiar. It can be very personal.
Becoming a Familiar is a substantial metaphysical transformation. If someone wishes for a fresh start or a complete reinvention of themself, or to completely liberate themselves from their past and a previous identity and start a new life, this is a way of going about doing that in a way that is more transformative than most other actions.
Surrendering oneself to become a familiar can be a profound gesture of love to a would-be master or coven to give yourself as a gift. It is the greatest gift a magical user can give to another magical practitioner, your power and self. It can be seen as a deep gesture of love.
Becoming a Human Magical Familiar provides immediate protection if that person is under threat of being claimed by harmful or negative supernatural forces. Those entities would now see that person as claimed property, a slave bound by The Laws of Magick, and as such, would be unable to claim The Familiar.
Someone may want a sapient magical assistant, 24/7 advisor, or companion that is bound to them to reduce chance of betrayal.
Loneliness is a valid reason to claim a Human Magical Familiar or to become a Human Magical Familiar. A Familiar should always live in the home of Their Master, a home purchased for them by their Master, or in some cases, The Coven House.
Familiars usually live in luxury and comfort as a pampered and beloved pet though they are required to assist their Master in magical matters, and formulate spells for their Master, as well as serve as advisor.
Familiars are NOT usually intended for menial labor (though that is optional if discussed beforehand). And a Master cannot control how a Familiar chooses to dress (except in regard to collar, pendant, or other marking, signifying claimed status.). Things such as restraints or gag are the prerogative of The Master and should be discussed between Master and would-be Familiar before the ritual of creating The Human Magical Familiar. The usual assumption is The Master has a right to restrain The Familiar whenever they so choose. So discuss these matters thoroughly when providing consent, or not, before the transformation spell.
If a magical practitioner is considered extremely powerful but dangerous, transforming them into a Familiar is a way of placing them and their power under control while they also remain useful to others.
Becoming a Familiar can be a chosen punishment for a serious magical offense to a person or coven. It is a great deal more effective and reformative than binding spells (which I, personally, feel don’t really work).
Someone may want the power to devise spells that are almost always guaranteed to work even if it is at the price of being able to cast those spells alone. (Again, a Familiar is forbidden from casting magick alone, it almost always will backfire that way.)
There is, for the Familiar, the promise of some possible heightened senses, slightly raised intellect and emotional range, and enhanced psychic potential.
Owning a Human Magical Familiar also gives you access to very obscure or incredibly specific spells as The Human Magical Familiar gains the ability to come up with spells that almost always work for any occasion their Master might ask for. You can be as precise as you want, such as “I want a spell that will improve the writing on my favorite Netflix series.”
For personal, intimate, reasons someone might wish to be claimed by another or wish to claim another. And creating a Human Magical Familiar is a way of doing that in a method that is publicly acceptable in the magical community.
If a magical practitioner is chronically ill or has a disability, having a live-in human familiar provides companionship and assistance so that both can be active in magical communities.
It is perfectly acceptable to bribe someone into selling themselves to be a Familiar. And there is no shame in accepting payment to sell yourself into becoming a Familiar but it is a decision that should be considered carefully. It is best done out of love.
Most familiars live with their Master(s) or in the house of their Coven but a Master may also buy a house for their Familiar near to their own house. A Familiar who owns their own house, given to them by their Master, is more likely to be perpetually loyal.
Owning a Human magical familiar gives you access to all the potential magical energy of your Familiar, channeled through them, to fuel your spells. Simply hold or touch your Familiar while casting a spell to accomplish this (May result in your Familiar feeling groggy afterward). Spells cast with the channeled energy of a Familiar almost always work and impressively well.
The Master gains access to all the useful possible enhanced senses or psychic abilities of The Familiar.
There is considerable clout, within the Magical and Supernatural world, in owning a Human Magical Familiar because it is still incredibly rare. It is a sign of status, strength, magical skill, and power, to have a Human Magical Familiar and implies great magical skill.